Finally after months and months and months the gyn/ob decided to give us a ivf referral. We spoke to several clinics. We heard one of the major ones in Sydney were excellent so booked in with them. The wait for the appointment dragged on and on. Finally the day was here. I was nervous but excited and couldn’t wait to find out what our next step would be. We got to the Drs office early. Finally my name was called. That’s where the excitment ended. The Dr couldn’t have been more discouraging or rude. I cried the whole time. First was why do you need ivf you are 25. (Thanks captain obvious I know my age and if he read the referral he would have seen I had been having major issues for 3 years by this point). He continued to be little us and make silly comments. Needless to say I went home heart broken. How could a Dr in this profession be so heartless and rude. Maybe this isn’t the road for us? Maybe I am just never supposed to be a mother. Maybe it’s supposed to be just me and Nate. Maybe I should just quit now. If a Dr won’t help me what do I do?